This week’s second reading gives us a particular call and proposal: “because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps”. Here, Jesus calls us to be humble like him; and to patiently bear harm even when it is being done to us when we have done something that is good.
Why does Jesus call us to do this? Because that is what love is! Love is not that which is impatient at personal suffering at the expense of others. Love is not that which is egoistic and which cares primarily about self-preservation. Love is not obsessed with being right and with proving a point. Rather, love is there to “set an example”. We love in order to show others the face of God. We love others so that we may show them true freedom – so that we may show them what it really means to be a “human being” (and not merely an “animal”). We love in order to let the Trinity grow within us – so that we may show others that it is possible for us to be free from the snares of anger and vengeance! For it is indeed possible for us to forgive; it is indeed possible to be patient – even when others are not respecting us – because Jesus did it, and Jesus was also fully human.
All this does not mean that we should allow ourselves to be degraded and to let others violate our dignity – but the question is, did Christ have his dignity violated on the cross? Did his enemies remove any of his dignity by insulting him and by killing him? Not fully, no! Because there is something within us – our value and our god-image— that nothing and no one can take away. This value is given to us by God and it increases the more we embody God. To allow others to berate us and to forgive them is therefore a sign of a flourished humanity. It is not a weakness, but a virtue that only those who are open to grace and to divinity can live out. So, in other words, be meek, be patient, be humble and forgiving – this is who Jesus is calling you to be!Keeping all the above in mind, it is important to note that Jesus doesn’t simply call to love as he loved – before we do this, he invites us to do something else. He first invites us to accept His love for us – “by his wounds you have been healed”. And this is why, in the Gospel reading, Jesus tells his disciples that he is the “door” that they need to pass through. Jesus warns us that no other prophet or person knows us personally in the way
God knows us. That no one else is the incarnate God, but for Him. Jesus reminds us that He is a Shepherd that shall always be faithful to us – and he calls all of us Christians to do the same for other: through our own unique vocations. All vocations, in their own ways, express the love of Christ as Shepherd. We must therefore discern the way in which God wants us to live our life, all for the sake of His glory!