In today’s gospel Jesus returns to Judea which is Jewish territory and he resumes his public ministry teaching about the importance of family and God’s ideal for marriage.
The crowds gathered around Jesus and he began to teach them, immediately the Pharisees approach Jesus to challenge him, they question him about the lawfulness of divorce by asking the question, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?” In reply to the Pharisees Jesus declares that what the law allows is not actually what God wills.
God’s purpose for marriage, according to Jesus is to be found in the first chapters of Genesis which we read in the first reading today. Marriage is a relationship of mutuality and partnership between a man and a woman. Whereas the Pharisees ask Jesus about divorce, in his reply Jesus places the focus on marriage.
As the Pharisees would have known, the Jewish Law permitted a form of divorce. According to the Book of Deuteronomy a man could dismiss a woman from his house by issuing a bill of divorce but there was no provision for a woman to divorce her husband. It was a law which left women vulnerable. Jesus’ vision of marriage is of a profound union between a man and a woman, a communion of faithful love.
It is no coincidence that immediately after this passage, Mark gives us a story about children (verse 13) “people were bringing little children to him, for him to touch them.” Marriage between a man and a woman is a place where children can grow up to feel loved and to flourish in a safe and secure family environment. Society has an obligation to support family life financially and through professional services and resources.
We know from our own experience that not all marriages reflect the ideal which Jesus presents today in the gospel reading. Many marriages breakdown and do not last. But Jesus does not condemn those who fall short of his vision. All of us, married or single, are called to love one another as the Lord has loved us, and sometimes we all fail in our response to that call. It is in those moments of weakness and failure that we can find comfort in the second part of today’s gospel “anyone who does not welcome the kingdom of God like a little child will not enter it.” We stand before the Lord with a child-like heart, in our weakness and vulnerability, open and receptive to the great gift of Jesus’ love that is given to us unconditionally. It is that gift which empowers us to keep reaching towards the goal, the ideal which Jesus presents to us through the gospel.
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