Today’s Gospel is about Mary and Joseph, Jesus’ family. We call them the Holy Family. The Gospels do not give us much information about this family, however, the little we know, provides each Christian family with a lot of insight. Mary and Joseph, take baby Jesus to present him to God in the Temple. There, they meet with Simeon and Anna; both are old, and both have great faith in God.
Mary and Joseph, obey the law and as was requested, they take Jesus to present him in the temple. As Christian parents, you took your children and presented them to God through their baptism. This is a good thing and an important step in the Christian journey. The very last part of the Gospel also throws light on what is expected from a Christian family. Jesus spent his childhood with Mary and Joseph, it was only later, when he grew up, that he left home to teach his people about God. This shows that childhood, moulds the character of the children. Parents are among those who are closest to the children and who will greatly influence the future of the children. Children learn from the behaviour and manners of the adults around them. They learn from the activities they are involved in. Children’s faith is nourished by the way the parents live their faith, by the way they pray, by the way they speak to the children, through their example.
Let us remember the fourth commandment: honour your father and mother. This commandment is not addressed only to the children. Children will come to respect their parents when they are given the attention, care and love needed, they come to respect their parents when they witness the sacrifices parents do for them. Christian parents take care of their children because they recognise that they are the main educators of their children, they are especially important in teaching their children about Jesus. It is the parents who provide for their children, both for what is material and spiritual. There is help; the parents are not left on their own, but the help given, even from the Church, can never replace the importance of the parents.
Every family will encounter difficulties and moments of crisis. Even the Holy Family was not spared from these moments. Family life is not a bed of roses. The difference for a Christian family, is where and from where to seek help. We need to allow God to guide us, we allow him to be part of our family, we also become familiar with the help offered from the Church, especially help from the parish where we live, particularly with regards to Christian formation. Christian formation is not to be limited only to children; formation is also available for adults.