Saint Rose of Lima

23 August

St. Rose was born in Lima, capital of Peru, on the 20th April 1586 and was baptized Isabel Flores de Oliva. She came from a large family. Her father Gaspar Flores was a soldier in the cavalry of the Imperial Spanish Army, while her mother, Maria de Oliva was a Creole.
She was such a beautiful child that for one of the servants she was simply a beautiful rose. Everybody started calling her Rosa, for rose, and that was the name she adopted at her Confirmation.

She grew up to be a beautiful young girl who attracted the attention of many. But Rosa, even when still very young, she wanted to give herself totally to God by taking a vow of virginity, determined to become a nun. But her parents aspired for her to marry, assured that her beauty would attract a good match. However, Rosa was greatly bothered by the compliments about her beauty. She cut her hair, and using pepper and lye, she tried to disfigure her face making her skin turn out in blotches!

Her parents refused to give her permission to enter a convent. With the help of her brother, she built a little grotto in their little garden and she retired there. Eventually, she received the habit of a Dominican Tertiary.

At one point, her family faced financial difficulties and to help her family out, she worked in the garden cultivating flowers to be sold at the market. She also employed herself in fine needlework, lace and embroidery to help her family financially. Very often she spent the night in prayer, lost in contemplation of the Eucharist which she received every day, a religious practice very rare in those times. She spent her days in her little grotto, fasting three days a week, abstaining from meat, wearing a hair shirt and on her head she often wore a circlet of silver that had sharp points on the inside. She even chewed bitter herbs and flogged herself!

Although she was a recluse she was not totally detached from what was happening around her. She was keenly aware of the sufferings of the people in her community, of the hardships that resulted from the corruption and practices of the Spanish lords and the governing class. She spoke openly against these oppressions in support of the missionaries who strived to ease the hardships of the natives. She was aware of the sick, the poor, the hungry homeless children, the elderly, whom she helped in every possible way, even bringing them to her home.
Rosa was often ridiculed for her way of life, especially when she started to speak of visions and ‘voices from heaven.’ Her austere way of life and severe penance had a toll on her health, so that eventually, she started suffering from ’stomach ailments, rheumatism and fevers’.

She died on the 25th August 1617, at the age of 31. Her funeral was attended by large crowds not only by the common people of Lima, but also by prominent people who took turns in carrying the coffin.  

The unusual penances and extreme mortification from the life of St. Rose could strike us as eccentric, even bizarre in this day and age.

  • It is not easy to explain mortification to children, especially in a society based on self-gratification in ‘the here and now’.
  • Children are very special to every parent/guardian but it is neither healthy nor beneficial to give them everything they ask for. Little acts of self denial, will start to shape and strengthen their character so that gradually they will learn to stand ’tall and firm’ when they meet challenges and adversities.
  • Remember that their requests need not necessarily be met with a “No.” An answer of “Not now” is also a practice in self-denial.
  • Sit down with them, before going out on a shopping spree and explain the reason for any limitations in spending on things that they do not really need.
  • You might decide to take the opportunity to discuss with the children the habits of healthy eating, so that while they deny themselves of junk foods and unhealthy eating habits they will also strengthen the value of self-denial. Eventually, the whole family will benefit. 

Revisit the story of Snow White!!!
Talk about how the stepmother spent most of her time looking at herself in the mirror, being obsessed about how beautiful she was. But she was not beautiful in her heart.

Discuss with the children who they think would be a more beautiful personality:
A pretty or handsome person who is obsessed with wearing trendy clothes but who is not kind, who can be mean and selfish, or perhaps a person who might be less attractive, does not go for trendy outfits but is kind, caring and a great friend. It is beneficial for children to realize the benefit of “looking good, feels good.” But to what extent? As parents and guardians, it is up to us to steer children from artificiality and base their self-development on being their natural selves. Children need appreciation and encouragement to enhance their self esteem but flattery and love of praise will only blow their self-importance out of proportion.

Family Prayer Time.St. Rose had a very special devotion to the Eucharist.

  • From a Children’s Bible look for an image of the Last Supper. Follow it with the  chaplet of the Fifth Mystery of Light.
  • During the holidays, consider attending a Eucharistic Celebration during the week not only on a Sunday.
  • When the celebration of Mass is over, stay longer for a few more minutes in adoration in front of the Blessed Sacrament. Lead the children’s thought towards acknowledging the Real Presence.

As parents and guardians we need to look out for any sign in the behaviour of our kids that shows signs of eating disorders or tendencies of self-harm. While in the 16th century certain practices were considered as signs of sainthood, today, medical science is showing us that this behaviour could also be a sign of psychological issues that need attention.

How to use this space

God speaks to us in many ways, including through the Saints of the Church. Here you will find useful background and activities to better understand the holy life, helping you to connect the saints to daily life in a meaningful way.