Saint Teresa of Avila

15th October

Teresa Ali Fatim Corella Sanchez de Cepeda Davila y Ahumeda  born on March 28, 1515  in Avila, Spain, the third child in a family of 9 children, became known simply as St. Teresa of Avila!
Her father Don Alfonso, a wealthy wool merchant and her mother Dona Beatriz, both carried ‘big names’ that speak of a high position in Avila.
Teresa was brought up in a pious, Christian environment, surrounded by stories of saints and martyrs. When she was 7, together with her brother Roderigo, she ran away from home, planning to beg like the poor friars, hoping to become martyrs at the hands of the Moors. They were found by their uncle who brought them back home to the relief of all!  At another time they decided to live like hermits, so they built cells of twigs and stones in their garden!

When Teresa was 14 years old, her outlook on life changed when her mother died. She put herself under the protection of Our Lady, beseeching her to be her mother. Soon after, her outlook on life steered on a different path after befriending one of her cousins. She was caught up in tales of chivalry and romance, indulging in following fashion, pampering herself in fine clothes, perfume and jewelry.
Noticing these changes in his daughter’s personality, her father decided to put his daughter with the Augustinian nuns to be educated. But after eighteen months, Teresa suffered a severe bout of malaria. She was sent home to live with her eldest sister in the country. It was during this period in her life that she decided to join the Carmelites. As her father did not give his consent, she went secretly to the Convent of the Incarnation, outside Avila, where she was admitted.
After her profession, Teresa, became gravely ill and once again she had to return home. It was only after 3 years, during which time she hovered between life and death that she returned to the convent where life was quite pleasant! The nuns had private apartments, wore jewelry, kept pets and were allowed all kinds of visitors. She found pleasure in being with people who admired her intelligence and charming personality.

She started to become aware that these practices were  driving her away from the practice of  prayer and from seeking union with God. When her practice of mental prayer deepened, she was enriched with spiritual experiences that were often diagnosed as possible delusions.
But these deep insights led her to a decision to reform the Carmelite Order. However,  her efforts at reform were met with opposition as she continued to be misunderstood and judged harshly.
By the time she was 43 , supported by her Spiritual Director, she became determined to found a new convent based on a simple life and prayer: the basics of the contemplative Carmelite Order. Her followers became known as the Discalced Carmelites as they went barefoot or just wearing scanty sandals. Eventually, by the support of St. John of the Cross, then a young priest, a male counterpart of Discalced Carmelites, was also founded.
Undaunted by the hardships of travel of those times she travelled from Spain through Portugal as far as the Mediterranean, crossing mountains and rivers, over poor roads, staying in rough lodgings and thriving on meagre food, so that by the time of her death at the age of 67, she had established 16 convents.
St. Teresa of Avila has been described as ‘ a mystic’ because through her deep mental prayer she experienced ‘a profound loving union with God.’
She has also been declared ‘Doctor of the Church’ not only for her ‘exemplary holiness’ but because her doctrinal writings contributed significatly to the Doctrine of the Church.

In spite of all adversaries St Teresa persevered in following the will of God for her. Our children need the virtue/skill of perseverance in their ’toolkit’, not only throughout their school years and career paths but for the rest of their life especially when things get tough.
    – Developing this virtue will strengthen their self-confidence, steering them away from  fear of failure when they ‘embrace failure’ and move on.
    – Guide them to establish short-term goals, adopting an attitude of ‘one step at a time’~ refrain from being too quick to help ~ celebrate the outcome whatever it is~ acknowledge their efforts.
    – As you analyze with them what went wrong, how and when to ask for help, they will learn to realize that better results can be achieved when they persevere in greater efforts.
    – Let them see us as a model when they see us persevere when things get difficult.

Prayer was ‘the life support’ of St. Teresa.
    – Introduce the concept of spontaneous prayer to the children as a time to ‘chat with Jesus’.
    – Use the example of their own experience of chatting with mum/dad/guardian when they return from school, talking about what they did, their happy or sad moments, their successes or disappointments.
    – In a quiet moment we can also ‘chat’ with Jesus about all this even without saying a word, by talking to Him in a quiet moment, even in our heart because Jesus knows our thoughts and feelings.
    – Introduce the idea of focusing our verbal/mental prayer to Jesus around ~ I love you ~ I’m sorry ~ Please ~ Thank You. One might consider preparing captions with these statements to be referred to.

Family Prayer Time

  • Create a Prayer atmosphere around a caption previously prepared (see above) according to family situations. Encourage the children to voice their prayer verbally or in silent prayer around the chosen topic.
  •  Jesus gave us an example of the perfect prayer in the Lord’s Prayer. Say it/Sing it with the children. Follow with a moment of silence.
  • Watch: “The Lord’s Prayer” Song .

How to use this space

God speaks to us in many ways, including through the Saints of the Church. Here you will find useful background and activities to better understand the holy life, helping you to connect the saints to daily life in a meaningful way.